Why do some couples fail in long distance relationship ?

Why do some couples fail in long distance relationship ?

 Not a few couple that I know have been finally give up their relationship due this thing called “distance”.. and I used to wondering,  “why ?” “how could they ?” you know, like, couples that looks so really into each other, showing off the love-action, or their sweetness, couples that have been in years together, why would they give up over this distance ??

I used to wonder like that,, until I have to walk in this kind of relationship by my own feet (okay, ini lebay)

Some people decide to give up on their relationship, because not having your partner around you, near to you, or maybe literally beside you, is sucks.

It is really hard.

Not easy at all.

There are always something to fight, something to argue.

You become untrusted, you might say something hurt and even if you already apologize it, you know it’s not enough. The word “sorry” is never enough to calm down your partner who lives far away from you.

You both need the presence.

And when things go smooth and nice, you’re not always 100% happy, there’s always this little tiny “sadness” tickles your heart.

You are always half happy and double sad.

And when you miss them,

you miss them really really hard to the point it hurts you back.

So it is true that if a couple can make it through the distance, they can make it through everything.

Because if you hold on, and not caring about your sadness, or the gloomy feeling, and you finally back together, literally together, “the ticket that only one way” moment, wooowwww, I can’t wait to face that day~ (or maybe I can, mine still have couple years tho)

Well, this is only from my view..

Maybe not all of this couple fell like what I’m writing here, but my point is, if you really have to make the distance-decision, make sure that this is what your heart want, make sure that you are ready for this.

And because I love my fiance so much, and I can’t live, or I don’t want to live without him, I am taking this challenge. I am having this years and miles relationship. I will wait him. I love him.

And I hope you do, too ;)